Identity – Twenty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time

“Who do you say that I am?”

These words have haunted followers of Jesus up and down the centuries. Each of us, at some point in our lives, comes face to face with this question. Is Jesus God, or not? We then have to grapple with the consequences of either answer and what they mean for our life.

So much of this question comes down to an understanding of who I am before I can really grapple with the question at hand. I think this is one reason why it is Peter who is able to so boldly profess, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the Living God.” In Luke’s Gospel, we hear how Peter was called by Jesus. Peter at first protests, saying, “Depart from me Lord, for I am a sinful man” (Luke 5:8). Peter knew he was a sinner, he knew he had faults. Peter knew he needed a savior. Only someone who needs saving can be saved.

Do you think you need saving? This is a tough question in today’s “I can do it myself” type of atmosphere. We aren’t good at accepting help, much less saving. This is something I’ve had to consciously work hard at allowing in my life. I cannot do everything, I need help sometimes. To need help is vulnerable and humbling. These qualities can and often are uncomfortable. But what does St. Paul say Jesus revealed to him about weakness?

“My [Jesus’] grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me. Therefore, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and constraints, for the sake of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10

There are times in life when we try to do it all. If you’ve been around this blog or my YouTube channel, you know these last few months of moving have been challenging. So much of why they have been a struggle was because I fell into two traps: 1. I continued to hold onto my pride in that I wanted my plan to be better than God’s plan, and 2. If my plan really wasn’t going to happen, then by golly I was going to muscle through God’s on my own strength, grit, will power, and arrogance.

I didn’t surrender. I didn’t place my weakness before my Savior. I didn’t give Him room to move in my heart to soften it to see more clearly His desires for me and my family.

Have you ever watched little kids when they are first learning how to swim with floaties on? Our family has been doing a lot of swimming since we moved to Alabama and both Gabe, age 4, and Nathan, age 2, have been getting accustomed to their floaties. One day, maybe our third or fourth visit to the pool, when Gabe was swimming/scrambling to the edge of the pool. He desperately wanted to keep up with his siblings, but just can’t swim as fast as them. I call to him, “Put your feet down, you can stand there!” He didn’t believe me. He kept struggling and became very frustrated. I went over to him, looked him in the eyes, and said, “Gabe, just put your feet down.” His shock was immediate, he could stand and walk to where he wanted to go.

For most of this move, I was Gabe in the water. I struggled, kicked, and became overly frustrated with most things. My solid ground was right there, waiting for me, if I had just slowed down enough to recognize its presence. God is God, I am not. No amount of struggling will change this fact.

When I recall who Jesus is, and who I am, I can walk on that solid foundation. There will still be waves, things won’t always go to my plans, and I might find myself led out into deeper water. No matter what challenges come my way, that sure foundation will always be there. I just have to keep my feet flat on the path.


Who is Jesus? Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. He is the Messiah, the Savior of the World. He is King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

I have linked to this litany before, but I’ll do so again. The Litany of Praise goes through a myriad of titles for Jesus. Some of them will be familiar, some may be new. If you aren’t sure how to answer this question, or you feel your answer is somehow inadequate, or if you just want to spend some more time pondering who Jesus is, I highly recommend it.

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Scooch In Closer

We have been so blessed to be with our families this Christmas. This is an uncertain time for many and plans continue shifting with each passing day. While Mary and Joseph were not battling a pandemic, they certainly knew something about plans changing, and then changing again, and again.

While at my parents home, my mom had put out a new nativity scene. It’s a unique set from my uncle who passed away this year. She had carefully placed each figure so they all could be seen and admired. It was clear that this set had a special place in the room and we were all drawn to it when we first got there.

Later on in the day, my mom came into the kitchen, laughing. “Someone went and rearranged the nativity. It’s ok though, I’ll fix it later.” I went to look at it and laughed myself. All her careful spacing was gone. Instead, there was a crush of figures and animals all vying for a place in the simple stable.

There was this energy about it. The animals were huddled together, for warmth? The wise men appeared to be more craning their necks for a better look instead of inclining them in reverence. The shepherd is scooched so close to Mary he almost looks like he’s touching her depending on the angle you approach from.

We left the nativity just like this for the duration of our stay. As we were getting ready to leave, I was thinking about what to write for a Christmas message for you all. Immediately, this thought about how this version, this vision of the nativity, is probably closer to the truth than the staged one. Imagine the shepherds, they heard the good news from the angels and were astonished. They rushed to Bethlehem. Do you really think they stood far outside the door, peeking in over one another’s shoulders? When the wise men came, did they send their gifts via messenger?

The visitors were compelled to come and see. In artwork up and down the centuries we see this scene depicted. There is a closeness, an intimacy, surrounding the Holy Family. That is what my kids captured in their nativity scene. Not only were the figures edging in as close as they could, but you as the viewer have to get closer to see into the action. “What’s happening? What are they all looking at? Why are they pressed in so close?”

As we journey in these last days to Christmas, I have to stop and wonder, which nativity scene am I participating in? Am I keeping Christ at a distance, even in this moment of the sweet little Christ-child? Am I only peeking in, not allowing myself to fully enter the mystery of my Savior coming to me? Or, am I walking in, sitting down next to Mary and looking into Jesus’s eyes? Am I coming to Christmas Mass with all the anticipation and excitement of the shepherds and wise men? Or, am I caught up in the amount of glitter my daughters’ dresses are going to leave on the pew and the cracker crumbs the little boys will sprinkle behind them?

This Christmas is, yet again, not what we would call “normal.” But Jesus is still coming. He is still waiting for you to scooch in closer, to come and see. This has not changed and will never change. I hope you are able to make it to Mass on Christmas Eve or Day. And when you go, I hope you spend some time with the nativity scene there. Take a few moments and really look, really participate. See Mary’s bent head, her eyes fixed on Jesus. See Joseph standing or sitting with them, protectively keeping watch over his precious family. See Jesus, the innocent child, come to save us all.

If you need a prayer to say when you spend time with the nativity , I’ll leave the lyrics to a lovely song by Rebecca St. James called “A Cradle Prayer.” Here is the link to the music if you would like to listen to it.

Jesus I love you my Lord my life
Where would I be without you
Here in the quiet, the still, the night
I am in awe of you

Trials may come and friends they may go What really matters is you my Lord
Beautiful Savior my God, my friend
I am in awe of you
Lord I am in awe of you

Why would you, Creator and King, come as a baby for all, for me?

https://genius.com/Rebecca-st-james-a-cradle-prayer-lyrics

I am wishing you a very Merry Christmas. One full of intimacy, even at a distance. One full of love and family, even if it’s through a window or screen. One full of Christ’s love, which is with you always.

December 23, 2016 – Emmanuel

O Emmanuel, our King and Giver of Law:
come to save us, Lord our God!

Emmanuel. God-with-us. These words are the start of the most radical and unconventional religion. Truly, think about it. We Christians fully believe that God, the divine, almighty, eternal God, became human…..? What prior religious tradition does that fit into? What group of people would that even make sense to? Gods don’t become human. Humans might strive for godhood or perhaps have godlike qualities, but gods and men are two fundamentally different things.

Until Emmanuel. The Incarnation of Jesus is a mystery of mysteries that we are still unfolding and will continue to ponder until Jesus returns again. Think back to our very first antiphon. Jesus, O Wisdom, the Word, is God who existed before the world began and indeed is outside of our concept of time. This same Jesus became a human, born of a woman. He came as the smallest and weakest of all of us, the new shoot from the root of Jesse in the early spring. He heralds the radiant dawn of a new day, a new order of creation. Jesus lived in a historical place and occupied a specific period of time. He walked, talked, ate, worked, celebrated and sorrowed with people every day. Jesus, Emmanuel, God-with-us.

Jesus is the overabundance of God’s love for His people. The Jewish people had been longing for a savior. We have united our longing with theirs through these antiphons. God fulfilled His promises in an unimaginable way. Instead of simply sending a mighty leader as the majority of Jews expected, God Himself came to save His people.

God continues in His generosity and overabundance. Jesus didn’t simply save the nations from the slavery of sin and death. He also gifted us with His very Body and Blood so that we might continue to be united in communion with Him and one another. He went even further than that. Before ascending into heaven, Jesus promised that His Spirit, the Holy Spirit, would come down upon the apostles and remain with them.

God-with-us isn’t just a historical event. Emmanuel isn’t only in the manger.

Jesus, Emmanuel, is the here and now. Even as we anticipate the celebration of Jesus’ birth, do not be fooled into thinking that He isn’t born anew each time you invite Him into your heart.

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