Advent Reflections – December 1, 2015

The Notion of Motherhood: Part 1

Mary’s role in Christ’s life, and in ours, is obvious. She is first and foremost a mother. If we are to imitate Mary, is must be from the perspective of her motherhood. Before we look at Mary as Mother, we should look at God as Mother.

No everyone, of course, is called or even capable of being a physical mother with physical children. However, we are all specifically and lovingly created in the image of God. Traditionally, we call God Father, as in the Bible and the prayer that Jesus himself gave us. However, to isolate God under the banner of one human notion of living would be inappropriate, since God is beyond our comprehension, understand and definition.

To balance out our visions and imaginations of God as Father, we should spend some time considering our perceptions of God, and specifically Jesus, as Mother. St. Julian of Norwich (ca. 1342 – ca. 1416) was an anchoress who received visions from Jesus. These visions or showings, were given to her over the course of a number of days in 1373. Julian speaks of “Jesus our Mother”, which, when you stop to think about it, makes a lot of sense. In Eucharist, we are fed from Christ’s own Body, just as babies we are fed at the breast of our own mother. Jesus our Mother gives over all of Himself, He suffers and even dies, so that we might have life. Now, our own mothers may not have died for us, though perhaps some have. They all did, most certainly, suffer so that we could be brought into the world – that we could have life.

Julian says

As truly as God is our Father, so truly is God our Mother, and he revealed that in everything, and especially in these sweet words where he says: I am he; that is to say: I am he, the power and goodness of fatherhood; I am he, the wisdom and grace of motherhood

If we are called to imitate Jesus, to be transformed into other Christs, then, according to Julian, we are to become mothers. Each and everyone of us has within us the capacity for spiritual motherhood.

What does your ideal mother look like? What qualities would she have? Can you see similar qualities in Jesus?

Happy Thanksgiving

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Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within the reach of every hand. – Mother Teresa

 

Today we celebrate Thanksgiving. Today is a day when we slow down, gather together, and bring to mind the things that we are grateful for. For some this year, there will be many things to be thankful for. Others may struggle, perhaps it was a year of hardship, difficulty or loss. Each year is unique and therefore, each Thanksgiving is filled with different hopes, joys, and sorrows.

This beautiful quote from Mother Teresa is appropriate for today. Regardless of the year you have had, love is always in season. God is Love. God’s love for each of us is never ending, untiring and ever merciful. It is never out of season, it is always in style.

It is my hope and prayer today that you are able to find time to spend with God, our creator and lover. I hope that you are able to recognize that no matter the year you’ve had, God’s love has been with you and will continue to be. When we extend our hands in thanksgiving, we realize our loving God has already filled them.

Happy Thanksgiving

 

ThanksGIVING

Here we are, November 22, just a few days away from Thanksgiving. This time of year is complicated. On one hand, we are preparing our homes and tables for Thanksgiving, a day to remember our blessings, to be grateful for what we have and share with our family and friends. On the other hand, we are bombarded with sales, merchandise and gift ideas for the coming of Christmas. The sense of urgency in these commercials and sales pitches would make a visitor think that the anticipated holiday was mere days away, instead of weeks.

I understand that this is a sensitive issue, and as a Catholic, I am very much in the minority when it comes to dating the official “Christmas Season.” Regardless of when you start to celebrate the Christmas season, I hope that you are a person who still celebrates Thanksgiving.

Until today, I was unaware some companies are starting to use Thanksgiving as yet another marketing tool. In a series of new Black Friday sales commercials, Verizon has turned Thanksgiving on it’s head. Take a minute and actually watch the commercial (it’s only 30 seconds long). Did you catch what they did?

Thanksgiving is a time of year when we are supposed to look outside of ourselves. We recognize what we have been given, what we are grateful for. We give thanks, be that to God, to family, to friends, our nation, our community, whoever! Abraham Lincoln, in his Thanksgiving Proclamation of 1863, said

It has seemed to me fit and proper that they [the gifts of God, especially His mercy] should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American People.

I’m not hearing anything about getting. I’m not hearing anything about wanting more or I want it now. I’m not trying to fight the Black Friday craze, (please drive safely and bring extra patience with you anyone who plans to partake). But I couldn’t let that commercial pass me by without addressing it.

Thanksgetting? Really, Thanksgetting? Have we descended so low that this is now acceptable? Is this what we want to teach our children the day is about? Is this representative of our accepted values?

I’m not asking you to like or dislike the commercial on youtube. I’m not even asking you to share this blog post. I just would like to ask anyone who reads this to stop for a moment and evaluate your priorities. Where are your thoughts these days, are they in the spirit of gratitude, or a spirit of desire?

What holiday will you be celebrating this week, Thanksgiving or Thanksgetting?